Cherish: the one word that changes everything for your marriage

Cherish book link:

https://www.amazon.com/Cherish-Word-Changes-Everything-Marriage-ebook/dp/B01CXDN2HO 

Video interviews:

Part 1: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rq6HmtlywvQ 

Part 2: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_HsxoPysAMs 

Discussion guide:

Talk 1:

WHAT IT MEANS TO ‘CHERISH’

 HOW TO RECAPTURE CHERISHING

1)         What is the ‘goal of a cherishing marriage’, in terms of the first marriage: Adam and Eve?

2)         What mind-set should we have that helps us to cherish our spouses? (Ballet illustration)

Talk 2:

KEEPING A RECORD OF RIGHTS!

 RESPONDING TO ‘BIDS’

 INFATUATION VS. CHERISHING

    1)      What are some benefits to regularly calling to mind things about your spouse that you appreciate?

 2)      What is helpful to remember when your spouse ‘makes a bid’ (raises something for attention) with you?

 3)      How can you ‘maintain curiosity’ with someone you’ve been married to for decades?

 4)      What is the difference between ‘infatuation’ and ‘cherishing’?

 5)      How can you make yourself ‘easier to cherish’?